Biggest Mistake Brides Make

In the great big world of weddings, there are a million things that can go wrong.  That's one of the reasons that hiring a great planner for your wedding can be so important.  

But, we understand that some brides and their families like to do it themselves.  We are here to warn you of the biggest mistake brides make when self-planning. It is so easy to fall into this trap that most brides don't even know they are there until it's too late.  

So what is this budget draining, cliche making, obvious to all the guests mistake?

Over detailing the decor.

It's a problem for so many wayward self-planners with Pinterest and a dream.  Here's how it starts.  Girl gets an idea for her wedding that she loves as much as her groom-to-be.  Next, girl proceeds to google, pin, Instagram, Facebook, catalog shop and Internet cart every item that is related to her theme.  The problem...all of these small items add up, cutting into the wedding budget and space.  

Honestly, how many butterflies need to be on the tables, and just because its a winter wedding, doesn't mean that every item that has every been produced with snowflakes on it is appropriate for your wedding.  

It is easy to get carried away with these details, but in the end, you are spending your wedding budget on frivolous items that aren't adding value to your concept.  

Instead of buying up everything that might go with your idea of a love bird wedding, and covering the tables with anything you were able to purchase online that had birds on it, take the time to put together a table concept that incorporates your theme without being forced.

Here are some tips to help you avoid this trap...

1.  Look at the big picture and only purchase items that are essential. 

2.  Avoid Oriental Trading.  (While there are some items that may be worth the purchase, usually you end up buying everything that relates to your theme because its inexpensive and you waste money that could have been spent on more important aspect of the wedding.)

3.  Before you buy, ask yourself, will my guests remember this detail.  If the answer is no, it's not essential to bringing together your vision.  

4.  Use Pinterest to help find exactly what style you want for your reception.  Use the pins as a guide for what you will need and for what you won't need.

5.  Consult a professional.  Especially if you are working with a limited budget, it will save you money in the long run.